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4 quotes by Marcus Aurelius on detachment + identity
Ignoring what goes on in other people’s souls—no one ever came to grief that way. But if you won’t keep track of your own soul’s doing, how can you not be unhappy?
Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do.
Self-indulgence means tying it to things that happen to you.
Sanity means tying it to your own actions.
The human soul degrades itself above all, when it does its best to become an abscess, a kind of detached growth on the world. To be disgruntled at anything that happens is a kind of secession from Nature, which comprises the nature of all things.
Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed.
Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been.It can ruin your life only if it ruins your character. Otherwise it cannot harm you—inside or out.
Ignoring what goes on in other people’s souls—no one ever came to grief that way. But if you won’t keep track of your own soul’s doing, how can you not be unhappy?
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- The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with you…Heraclitus
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Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do.
Self-indulgence means tying it to things that happen to you.
Sanity means tying it to your own actions.
Added in 2026
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- The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with you…Heraclitus
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- The Fear of Missing Outan essay
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- The human soul degrades itself above all, when it does its best to become an abscess, a kind of…Marcus Aurelius
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- Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been. It c…Marcus Aurelius
- Ignoring what goes on in other people’s souls—no one ever came to grief that way. But if you won…Marcus Aurelius
Added in 2026
The human soul degrades itself above all, when it does its best to become an abscess, a kind of detached growth on the world. To be disgruntled at anything that happens is a kind of secession from Nature, which comprises the nature of all things.
Added in 2026
Appears in
Along the same lines
- Coloran essay
- The Fear of Missing Outan essay
- Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed. Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been. It c…Marcus Aurelius
- Ignoring what goes on in other people’s souls—no one ever came to grief that way. But if you won…Marcus Aurelius
- Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do. Self-indulgence means tying…Marcus Aurelius
- The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with you…Heraclitus
Added in 2026
Choose not to be harmed—and you won’t feel harmed.
Don’t feel harmed—and you haven’t been.It can ruin your life only if it ruins your character. Otherwise it cannot harm you—inside or out.
Added in 2026
Appears in
Along the same lines
- Coloran essay
- The Fear of Missing Outan essay
- The human soul degrades itself above all, when it does its best to become an abscess, a kind of…Marcus Aurelius
- Ignoring what goes on in other people’s souls—no one ever came to grief that way. But if you won…Marcus Aurelius
- Ambition means tying your well-being to what other people say or do. Self-indulgence means tying…Marcus Aurelius
- The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with you…Heraclitus
Added in 2026