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5 quotes on detachment + the practice
Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.
Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your mental afflictions and the discomfort of being ruled by them.
Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise and genuine seriousness, tenderly, willingly, with justice. And on freeing yourself from all other distractions. Yes, you can—if you do everything as if it were the last thing you were doing in your life, and stop being aimless, stop letting your emotions override what your mind tells you, stop being hypocritical, self-centered, irritable. You see how few things you have to do to live a satisfying and reverent life? If you can manage this, that’s all even the gods can ask of you.
Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also maddeningly difficult, particularly in a culture that prizes busyness over just about everything else.
But mindful isn’t the opposite of busy.
Mindfulness demands intention. Mindfulness is the practice of simply doing the work. Without commentary, without chatter, without fear.
The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowhere—like Hadrian, like Augustus.
The second step: Concentrate on what you have to do. Fix your eyes on it. Remind yourself that your task is to be a good human being; remind yourself what nature demands of people. Then do it, without hesitation, and speak the truth as you see it. But with kindness. With humility. Without hypocrisy.
Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.
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- Deathan essay
- The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowh…Marcus Aurelius
- Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your me…Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
- Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise an…Marcus Aurelius
- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
Added in 2026
Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your mental afflictions and the discomfort of being ruled by them.
Added in 2026
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- Deathan essay
- Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.Marcus Aurelius
- Well-being is realized by small steps, but is truly no small thing.Zeno
- The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowh…Marcus Aurelius
- Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise an…Marcus Aurelius
- This is what you deserve. You could be good today. But instead you choose tomorrow.Marcus Aurelius
- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
- The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts t…William Arthur Ward
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Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise and genuine seriousness, tenderly, willingly, with justice. And on freeing yourself from all other distractions. Yes, you can—if you do everything as if it were the last thing you were doing in your life, and stop being aimless, stop letting your emotions override what your mind tells you, stop being hypocritical, self-centered, irritable. You see how few things you have to do to live a satisfying and reverent life? If you can manage this, that’s all even the gods can ask of you.
Added in 2026
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- Deathan essay
- Choicean essay
- Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.Marcus Aurelius
- The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowh…Marcus Aurelius
- Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your me…Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
- The Fear of Missing Outan essay
- Do not seek for things to happen the way you want them to; rather, wish that what happens happen…Epictetus
Added in 2026
Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also maddeningly difficult, particularly in a culture that prizes busyness over just about everything else.
But mindful isn’t the opposite of busy.
Mindfulness demands intention. Mindfulness is the practice of simply doing the work. Without commentary, without chatter, without fear.
Added in 2026
Appears in
Along the same lines
- Deathan essay
- Parallel Worldsan essay
- Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.Marcus Aurelius
- More isn’t the point. Better is.Seth Godin
- Pathfinding is at the core of creating with significance, and finding the path is largely the wo…Seth Godin
- The foundation of all real skills is this one: the confidence and permission to talk to one anot…Seth Godin
- The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowh…Marcus Aurelius
- Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your me…Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
Added in 2026
The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowhere—like Hadrian, like Augustus.
The second step: Concentrate on what you have to do. Fix your eyes on it. Remind yourself that your task is to be a good human being; remind yourself what nature demands of people. Then do it, without hesitation, and speak the truth as you see it. But with kindness. With humility. Without hypocrisy.
Added in 2026
Along the same lines
- Deathan essay
- Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.Marcus Aurelius
- Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your me…Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche
- Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise an…Marcus Aurelius
- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
- Today I escaped from anxiety. Or no, I discarded it, because it was within me, in my own percept…Marcus Aurelius
- Detachedan essay
Added in 2026