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To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it.
The golden rule—treat others as you would treat yourself.
The internal golden rule—treat yourself as others should have treated you.
Without reason, and we become a slave to our circumstances.
But without emotion, there is no reason to have reason.
'Be kinder to yourself' is a lifeline for a perfectionist who is already tearing himself up, but it's a permission slip for the man who already lets himself off the hook everyday.
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
we do not suddenly fall on death, but advance towards it by slight degrees; we die every day. For every day a little of our life is taken from us; even when we are growing, our life is on the wane. We lose our childhood, then our boyhood, and then our youth. Counting even yesterday, all past time is lost time; the very day which we are now spending is shared between ourselves and death. It is not the last drop that empties the water-clock, but all that which previously has flowed out; similarly, the final hour when we cease to exist does not of itself bring death; it merely of itself completes the death-process. We reach death at that moment, but we have been a long time on the way.
I again saw under the sun that the race is not to the swift and the battle is not to the warriors, and neither is bread to the wise nor wealth to the discerning, nor favor to the skillful; for time and chance overtake them all.
Food does no good and is not assimilated into the body if it leaves the stomach as soon as it is eaten; nothing hinders a cure so much as frequent change of medicine; no wound will heal when one salve is tried after another; a plant which is often moved can never grow strong. There is nothing so efficacious that it can be helpful while it is being shifted about. And in reading of many books is distraction. Accordingly, since you cannot read all the books which you may possess, it is enough to possess only as many books as you can read.
In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts; they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty.
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.
If you do not know what port you are sailing to, no wind is favorable.
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.
Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.
There are no solutions. There are only trade-offs.
Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.
Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.
The soul is healed by being with children.
When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.
Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.
You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.
The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.
Time is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love,
time is eternity.
The Society that separates its scholars from its warriors will have its thinking done by cowards and its fighting done by fools.
Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your mental afflictions and the discomfort of being ruled by them.
Well-being is realized by small steps, but is truly no small thing.
To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it.
Added on Tuesday, August 11, 2026
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Added on Tuesday, August 11, 2026
The golden rule—treat others as you would treat yourself.
The internal golden rule—treat yourself as others should have treated you.
Added in 2026
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- Well being is good luck, or good character.Marcus Aurelius
- The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with you…Heraclitus
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Without reason, and we become a slave to our circumstances.
But without emotion, there is no reason to have reason.
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
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- Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.Aristotle
- The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.Blaise Pascal
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
'Be kinder to yourself' is a lifeline for a perfectionist who is already tearing himself up, but it's a permission slip for the man who already lets himself off the hook everyday.
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
Added on Wednesday, August 5, 2026
we do not suddenly fall on death, but advance towards it by slight degrees; we die every day. For every day a little of our life is taken from us; even when we are growing, our life is on the wane. We lose our childhood, then our boyhood, and then our youth. Counting even yesterday, all past time is lost time; the very day which we are now spending is shared between ourselves and death. It is not the last drop that empties the water-clock, but all that which previously has flowed out; similarly, the final hour when we cease to exist does not of itself bring death; it merely of itself completes the death-process. We reach death at that moment, but we have been a long time on the way.
I again saw under the sun that the race is not to the swift and the battle is not to the warriors, and neither is bread to the wise nor wealth to the discerning, nor favor to the skillful; for time and chance overtake them all.
Added on Monday, August 3, 2026
Food does no good and is not assimilated into the body if it leaves the stomach as soon as it is eaten; nothing hinders a cure so much as frequent change of medicine; no wound will heal when one salve is tried after another; a plant which is often moved can never grow strong. There is nothing so efficacious that it can be helpful while it is being shifted about. And in reading of many books is distraction. Accordingly, since you cannot read all the books which you may possess, it is enough to possess only as many books as you can read.
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In every work of genius we recognize our own rejected thoughts; they come back to us with a certain alienated majesty.
To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.
Added in 2026
If you do not know what port you are sailing to, no wind is favorable.
Added in 2026
Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
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- You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say t…Matthew 5:43-48
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He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.
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Educating the mind without educating the heart is no education at all.
There are no solutions. There are only trade-offs.
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Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.
Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.
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- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
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The soul is healed by being with children.
When you want to help people, you tell them the truth. When you want to help yourself, you tell them what they want to hear.
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Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.
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You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.
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- Do not seek for things to happen the way you want them to; rather, wish that what happens happen…Epictetus
- Think of yourself as dead. You have lived your life. Now take what's left and live it properly.Marcus Aurelius
- It is not the man who has too little, but the man who craves more, that is poor.Seneca
- The cucumber is bitter? Then throw it out. There are brambles in the path? Then go around them.…Marcus Aurelius
- Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise an…Marcus Aurelius
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The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.
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Time is too slow for those who wait,
too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve,
too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love,
time is eternity.
The Society that separates its scholars from its warriors will have its thinking done by cowards and its fighting done by fools.
Added in 2026
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Ultimately, happiness comes down to choosing between the discomfort of becoming aware of your mental afflictions and the discomfort of being ruled by them.
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- Deathan essay
- Not a dancer but a wrestler: waiting, poised, and dug in, for sudden assaults.Marcus Aurelius
- Well-being is realized by small steps, but is truly no small thing.Zeno
- The first step: Don't be anxious. Nature controls it all. And before long you'll be no one, nowh…Marcus Aurelius
- Concentrate every minute like a Roman—like a man—on doing what’s in front of you with precise an…Marcus Aurelius
- This is what you deserve. You could be good today. But instead you choose tomorrow.Marcus Aurelius
- Mindfulness is healthy, it’s professional, and it allows us to be our best self. It is also madd…Seth Godin
- The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts t…William Arthur Ward
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Well-being is realized by small steps, but is truly no small thing.
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